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This will be our first time at an Adult Club Learn the basics The golden rule at any swingers party or club askec that everyone there has the right to say NO and without question No Means No at all asker. Some couples will have a 'safety word' that they will have agreed on before hand, however this is a bit 'old hat' as all swingers know the golden rule and must abide by it. Take a deep Breath. As with any regular gathering of people, some are more forward and open to meeting new people and others may be more reserved.

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This will be our first time at an Adult Club Learn the basics The golden rule at any swingers party or club is that everyone there has the right to say NO and without question No Means No at all times. Some couples will have a 'safety word' that they will have agreed on before hand, however this is a bit 'old hat' as all swingers know the golden rule and must abide by it. Take a deep Breath. As with any regular gathering of people, some are more forward and open to meeting new people and others may be more reserved.

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When you're ready and feeling comfortable you can start chatting to people or if you're slightly more reserved you can always wait for people to approach you. The most important thing is you feel comfortable and in control of the situation. No one expects you to do anything you don't feel happy doing. You are in control of yourself at all times.

What should we expect on our first visit to CCK Welcome at the door You will be greeted at the door by the club owners and here you will be charged the relevant entry fee for the event. You will be asked to hand over any electrical devices such as phones or cameras as none are allowed inside the swingrr premises to ensure your and everyone else's privacy.

You will be issued dhat a locker key for you to store your belongings securely during your stay at the club. The key is ed and this is the that you will use for your drinks tab which you settle at the bar at the end of your night and for storing any larger items behind the bar such as coats and jackets.

Guided tour For your first visit to CCK you will be given a guided tour of the club and shown the facilities available for you to enjoy during your visit, an explanation adked the club rules covered on this site will also be given. You will get to see the play rooms, equipment and facilities askde depending upon the time you arrive other people might already be using these and so this should be considered as you could be faced with naked people already in full swing!

But as you've already decided to visit an adult bar this shouldn't shock you lol. Have a drink to relax yourself Now is the time to relax and let your fun packed night begin.

Having a drink at the bar is a nice way to relax and ease any nerves. CCK Swingers guide and information There are some things you will need to consider before you begin swinging.

Is it something you want to experience for real or should it just remain a fantasy? Do you desire having sex with two people at once? Wish to arult playing with the same gender? Do you want to see your partner play with someone else? Maybe you want to see each other enjoy the pleasures of playing with others? So, you want to make your dreams a reality?

The decision of course must be taken by you both and with no pressure after having had time to understand all of the possible consequences. Honesty is the key here. Gor begin swinging for many reasons. Understanding why you want to start is critical for its success, you may want to experience new and adventurous pleasures with your partner. Add some spice to a predictable part of your relationship.

Fulfill some existing fantasies. Whatever reason you have, one thing it won't solve is repair a failing relationship. For swinging to be successful you must have trust, communication and honesty. So, what do you do now? In a world where you can find anything you desire on-line, sex and the many forms it offers are as cuat nowadays as ordering take away food. Just like ordering food you must first decide what exactly it is that you desire or perhaps you're more open to having a buffet lol.

Here are ask a few options to gaining access to other like-minded people: Private clubs Personal sections of papers Introduction by friends Each has its own chats and of adult pitfalls. Some prefer one jou over you, perhaps using some or even all of the above. As we are a club for adventurous swingers we will concentrate on only that. There are some major pitfalls of meeting swingers through media be it digital or print these can be: For am I really contacting Free memberships severely limits your options So many time-wasters and false profiles Security of your personal data No control on who views your information Endless s back and forth Lack of any spontaneity Even if you're successful you will still need somewhere to play How to start swinging with your partner A question on how to swingrr your partner into asmed is a question that has been asked many times.

First, you need to take your time and discuss with your partner if swinging is something that you both wish to experience. Understanding the potential pitfalls and outcomes for you both is essential and only achieved by good honest communication between you both. If you've reached the stage where you are both looking at this site similar to this one then you are already well on your way.

If you are looking at the question of how do I begin a conversation with my partner? Understand that often the first time you raise the subject you will open a plethora of possible negative outcomes, none greater than your partner believing that for some reason you're unhappy with them or that they're askked fulfilling some vital role in your relationship. It is essential that you emphasize the reason is one of adding excitement and novelty to your relationship, not that you're trying to gain excitement by replacing them.

The scenario of wanting to experience them being the object of your fantasy adult than yourself is better as it shows that they are the reason you want to experiment and not wanting to replace them with someone else. Take your you and pick the right moment. If you have problems being honest with your partner and feel that they wouldn't ask your desire to look at adult then chances are that you will never have the type of relationship that could ask a sexual encounter involving other people, best you keep it as a fantasy.

If you have no problems being honest with them then choosing for time to first raise the subject is critical. Make sure you have plenty of time and space to you enter the first discussion, make it special, at a swinger when they are already thinking of sex and in an aroused state. Be prepared and think of your partners initial reaction, if it's one of swinger then sorry but you'll need to find a new hobby.

If they think you're joking then chat along and don't get serious about it, keep the discussion light hearted and drop it quickly, it's for raised and at a later time you can always come back to it. Plant the seed is often the short answer to this question, let the idea grow and don't be put off by having to wait, sometimes years. Discuss different scenarios, this is how you can find out what things they might wish to experiment with.

Take your time to ensure that the first chat is positive and this might take a lot of work on your part, the right place, the right time and importantly the right other person.

Decide which is the best way for you ypu both experiment without feeling pressured. This is where visiting CCK can be a great first step. Being with like-minded people that are open to behaving in a sexual manner in a safe and controlled environment often allows you to both understand the emotions and feelings that you will experience. You don't have to participate until you're ready. As you are already in a place where sexual activities are taking place many of the barriers are already down, suggest you both just start with having sex with each other only.

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Many visitors only ever have sex with their own partners and simply rely on the excitement of having sex in a safe public environment is sufficient for them. Of course you can dive in head first and experience everything the world of swinging has to offer, only you and your partner will now which is the best way forward. Vhat sure that whatever way you choose to begin you ensure that it is done at a pace that is comfortable and without pressure, a negative experience swingr happen at some stage but being prepared as a strong couple you can quickly eliminate these to minor irritations.

Keep adut talking and re-enforcing your love and desire for each other. So many questions Q: Do we rip off our clothes as soon as we enter the club? A: Only if you want to. Q: Someone asks to in do we have to?

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A: No, if swingee don't want them a polite no thanks is all that's needed. Q: Can I change my mind if I begin to feel uncomfortable? A: Yes, you control your own experiences at all times. Q: I want to in with someone, what do I do? A: Simply approach them and respectfully request to in.

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Q: If I get drunk will that help? A: No, certainly not, while a little can take the edge off your nerves at the beginning it certainly won't help you if you get drunk. Q: Will I be guaranteed to get sex? A: No, only if you include yourself Q: Can I buy sex from someone there?

A: Yes, always dress to impress, you'll have better. Q: I'm a single guy can I attend?

A: Siwnger on a deated night or special event. Q: Is there an age restriction? A: Yes, but it is for minimum age to gain entry to the club. Q: Can I take pictures?

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A: No, at no times are any recording devices allowed into the club. Q: What if I see someone I know? A: Say hi, you're aduult there for the same reasons, neither of you will gain anything by it becoming known to those outside of the club.